Uru Punya kaavu |
The Soul or Atma is considered imperishable therefore it becomes the dharma of the descendants of the departed souls to remember them on a daily basis and on specific days poojas are conducted for them like on New moon day – Amavasya, Eclipse Days – Grihanam, Uttarayana – Dakshinayana, on their specific day of their passing –Thithi or while visiting any Theertha Sthalas. There are specific temples for Bali Tharpanam, one such temple is Uru Punya Kaavu. It is believed to be one of 108 temples built by Parasurama for the Brahmanas he relocated to the land reclaimed from the sea(Kerala). Goddess Jaladurga is the main deity and Ayyappa and Ganapathi are other deities worshipped here. Similar to Tiruneli, this temple is also one of the places for Bali Tharpanam.
Hindus
have high regard for their ancestors, the Pitras. It is believed that we are
obligated to our ancestors to continue their legacy by imparting it to our
children, this is our debt to the ancestors Pitra-rin. By begetting children we
are enabling the Pitras to be reborn. The immortal soul is enclosed in three
shells, the first is the flesh or the body that we can touch and feel, the
second is the energy that the body encloses and the third is the Soul or the Atma
that which is the true self or the spirit. The atma accumulates the karmic
debts and assets acquired through many lives. The soul or atma is obligated to
return to earth until it is free of the debts attained from Karma in past
lives. Moksha is attained only then. Belief in rebirth puts the responsibility
of our Karma squarely on our shoulders, our previous Karma has got us where we
are today. We may not remember our past Karmas from past lives but are nevertheless
responsible for it. The Bali actually means sacrifice, or daanam. The Daanam done in the name of the ancestors people in the form of food, clothes, money, land is the punya karmam. The poojas conducted are a token to the Gods to accept the daana karmam in the name of the relative concerned, and consider it for their progression into higher realms.
Fear
of the unknown is perhaps the reason for religion and rituals. Fear of Death,
fear of afterlife, fear of loosing your loved ones, fear of being unsuccessful,
fear of performance. The endless fears of the Human mind are addressed in
religion. Sense of protection is imparted by believing in the higher power and
acknowledging it. Many of the Hindu rituals and poojas address our fears. Different
religions address these fears differently some explain heaven and hell, Jannat
and Jahannum, The Karmic cycle of life and death and the ultimate Moksha or
Nirvana. Eventually the learning should be that as YOU this is the only life
you have, you live in a fraction of time, time is eternal with no beginning and
no end. Life goes on with or without you, so in the little time you have Live
to have no regrets, Forgive, do not forget for learning come from mistakes. Life
is What you make of it!